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Archives for June 2016

Violence can never be the answer

June 17, 2016 by Andrew Marshall 1 Comment

Violence is never the answer to any problem. It is the province of the insane. High profile cases such as the Pulse attack in Orlando earlier this week and the murder of UK Member of Parliament Jo Cox yesterday hit the headlines and make us think how awful such things are. They are indeed terrible and it is almost impossible to imagine the grief and impact on the lives of the loved ones of the victims. Shamelessly cruel events happen all the time across the globe. We can and do blame the perpetrators because the human trait is to blame someone when things go wrong. But violence is a symptom of general insanity, a sickness shared by the whole human race. Isis is committing genocide, according to the UN. Unthinkable. But have we stopped it? Do we even know how to stop it? It seems not.

Violence starts in the mind

We normally associate violence with harmful actions and angry words. But before those words and actions, there are thoughts. The process may happen very quickly, so we may say someone acted without thinking. There have to be thoughts, though. Arms and legs don’t move by themselves. The mouth doesn’t enunciate without brain activity.  It all starts in the mind.

Where do the violent thoughts come from? A psychologist will be able to identify a million and one causes. However complex, there is always the underlying cause of separatism. With a belief that we are different, we see the other person (or race) as less human than we are, or not human at all.

Can there be justified violence?

If we are attacked, it may be necessary to use force to defend ourselves. Even so, most would agree that force is a last resort. A true martial artist would rather walk away from trouble than use his or her fighting skills. A military general might argue the benefits of a preemptive strike to prevent an attack. By and large, however, violence is a recipe for trouble and merely sows the seeds for retaliation at a later date.non violence gandhi

Non-violence

Mahatma Gandhi proved that non-violence can achieve enormous results. Corporal punishment of children, once considered essential, is now generally regarded as primitive, cruel and unnecessary, in the west at least. Not all societies follow that view and there are many countries where barbaric cruelty is still meted out, and not only to children. In the long run, do we want our communities to be run on the basis of fear? Or is it better to have kindness and mutual respect? If it is the latter, the place we have to start with is ourselves.

 

The importance of love in the conduct of business and politics is developed in my second book Awakening Heart: The Blissful Path to Self-Realisation

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Consciousness – your most important asset

June 11, 2016 by Andrew Marshall Leave a Comment

Consciousness is more than a description of wakefulness. It is as fundamental as life itself. Without consciousness, we do not exist but does its quality matter?

Quality of consciousness v. quantity of actions

What is more important – our consciousness or our actions? Society tends to judge its members by what they achieve and, sadly but inevitably, we are affected by that. Value is put on what people do. Life is dominated by an ethic that demands that we be doing something, all the time.

This belief creates patterns of thought in virtually all of us, so that we are preoccupied with doing and being busy. Whether we spend our life consciousness busyrunning a home, studying, going out to work or caring for others, in most of us there is a tendency to need to be doing things. Because of a sense of guilt, many of us feel a need to be seen to be doing things, otherwise we may be perceived as lazy. It becomes a habit. Many people who retire from work find that they feel they have to be engaged in something because that is the culture we live in. One man told me it took him five years after retiring before he could allow himself to sit and do nothing for a while without feeling guilty.

But is what we do always so important? Pareto came up with the principle that 80% of what we achieve comes through only 20% of our actions. From my observations throughout life, even that is optimistic for many people. Given that we spend so much time engaged in action, is life so much better for it?

Why are we here anyway?

If we look at why we are here on the face of the Earth, we might come up with several answers. Some may say we are here to improve the lot of others, some may say our purpose is to love, whilst there are those who say we are here to learn and gain experience.  Quite a number, who perhaps haven’t looked at things as deeply as they might, hold the view that we are here by chance or accident.

It is for each of us to find why we are here and the answer for each of us may be different in its detail. But the essence of all the answers must be that the reason we are all here is to evolve.

That process of evolution must include improving, widening, deepening and clarifying our consciousness, an unfolding that is often called enlightenment. If that is the case, it must be that whatever we undertake should be done with the fullest awareness we are capable of. If our awareness is only partial and is on other things while we are carrying out an action, we are only living partially. Our consciousness is split, which makes improvement difficult.

It’s not what you do…

That brings us back to the question posed a few moments ago – what is more important, our consciousness or our actions? The quality of our consciousness is the most important thing in any given moment and provided we look after our consciousness, the actions that we carry out will be filled with quality. As the old song says, “It’s not what you do, it’s the way that you do it.”

Please do not think that I’m encouraging you or anyone else to stop doing things. But it’s better to do something well and with full awareness than to rush through half a dozen things with only half a mind on the job. Make sure you are always fully aware in the present moment. This means relaxing in your body and carrying out whatever needs to be done with calmness and clarity. It may be that you will carry out fewer actions but you will be fully alive and that is what matters. This will bring poise and gradually your life will become more serene. Being will become part of doing.

consciousness last breathThe in-tray’s last breath

Someone wrote years ago that the in-tray is never empty. There will always seem to be something waiting to be done. One day this life will be over and we won’t be able to reach for the in-tray. But what we will have with us is our consciousness. Will that consciousness have been improved as a result of our life? At that point, that very final point, that is all that is going to matter.

From The Great Little Book of Happiness

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Thinking too much is a loss of life

June 3, 2016 by Andrew Marshall Leave a Comment

Thinking – we can’t stop it but is that good or bad?

This may sound odd, but have you ever thought about your thoughts? From the moment we open our eyes in the morning until we fall asleep at night, we produce an endless stream of thoughts. Perhaps it would be more accurate to say “streams” of thoughts because there appears to be little relation between many of them. But each thought we have is preceded by a thought or an event of some kind – the phone ringing, perhaps, or someone speaks to us or we hear a noise – and produces another thought. It’s like perpetual motion but in the mind. If all that thinking was effective and productive, what amazingly efficient beings we would be!

A waste of time

Unfortunately, most of our thoughts are a waste of time and energy. If we observe what we are thinking about, thinking waste of energywe will probably find that at least 90% is about what has gone on in the past or what we think is going to happen in the future.

In thinking about the past, we might be reflecting on what has happened. How well did we deal with a situation? Why did someone speak to us the way they did? What made a neighbour act in a certain way? Maybe we reflect on a pleasant evening we had, and so it goes on. That’s human nature, isn’t it?

We also think about the future. What time we need to be somewhere, hoping something turns out ok, imagining how we are going to deal with a situation, how someone is going to react, looking forward to a holiday etc. It sounds exhausting and it is exhausting.

Thinking uses up energy

Thinking uses up energy. It uses up physical energy in the form of calories (a good thing, you might say) but unnecessary thoughts also dissipate our chi and other subtle energies. This results in our awareness lacking focus and coherence. Thinking can stir up emotions, too. Everything seems hunky-dory and all of a sudden our mind flits back to a painful event in the past – and whoosh – up come all the old emotions; or we start to worry about what might happen in the future.

All this is truly remarkable because the one thing we are not thinking about very much is what lies between the past and the future – now. All we have, ever, is the present moment. There is nothing else. Life is just an unfolding present moment, but if we are not present in the present, life is lost to us and we are lost to life.

There is more on this in The Great Little Book of Happiness, available here.

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