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Archives for November 2015

Resentment sucks – it’s really bad for you!

November 27, 2015 by Andrew Marshall Leave a Comment

Letting go of grievances and resentment is not only necessary for our own development – it is essential for good health. Let’s look at why.

There’s more to the eye…

Rather like an onion with its many layers, there is far more to a human being than the façade of the physical body. There are deeper layers. If we “peeled back” the physical layer, we would find something like a blueprint of what we see on the outside. This is sometimes called the etheric or vital body and the various meridians and other channels through which chi flows help to form this. If the etheric body goes out of balance, sickness arises in the physical body; if the etheric body is well-balanced, good physical health and well-being are the result.

A little deeper than this is the subtle body through which feelings are experienced, sometimes called the emotional body, and deeper still is the mental body in which thoughts and imagination have their place. Each of these bodies is inter-linked with the others. For example, a negative thought will cause a reaction in the emotional body, so a bad feeling will arise; this in turn affects the balance of energy in the etheric body so our vitality and sense of well-being take a knock. This, if prolonged, can result in sickness or some other manifestation of poor health.

Three healthy reasons why we need to let go of resentment

If we hang onto grievances, or thoughts of guilt in relation to ourselves, knots, stagnation and blocks in the flow of energy will arise in our mental body. These will have an effect on our emotions and these in turn will adversely affect the energy flow within the etheric body. Our vitality will go down and we just won’t feel good. If we could see the auraResentment face of someone holding resentment, we might see dark unpleasant patches in it, like black holes, with red flashes when the resentment is aroused. That doesn’t make for a pretty sight and even though the aura may not be seen by most people, it can still be sensed. Resentment and anger are very ugly things. A number of things can happen if we hold onto past wrongs, whether they are our own mistakes or someone else’s:

  1. We will experience a lack of clarity and our thinking will be distorted. Uncomfortable feelings or emotions, upset energy, a weakening of the immune system and generally feeling out of balance are inevitable. If we hold onto this for a long time, illness is very possible.
  2. The subtle energy centre of the heart, where warm feelings would normally arise, will be closed off – slightly when the memory of the resentment is dormant and greatly, or even completely, when the memory surfaces.
  3. The body’s circulation will be affected by constrictions in the etheric body, the nervous system will be agitated and the endocrine system will be adversely affected.

Negative thinking eventually wears the body out as well as ruining our happiness. Resentment literally sucks. It drains the energy right out of us. Letting go of wrongs (or what are perceived as wrongs) is essential for our health and our happiness.

For the world, too

On a wider level, society, too, needs to let go of many wrongs. Holding onto the past is resulting all over the world in warfare, famine and racism, to name but three. But society cannot let go unless the individuals within it let go in their own lives.

So the responsibility for letting go goes beyond what is good for the individual. If we want a better world, we have to learn to forgive. No matter how justified resentment may seem, we have to let it go.

More on this in The Great Little Book of Happiness. This article is an adaptation of an extract from Chapter 2.

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Forgiveness is doing yourself a favour

November 21, 2015 by Andrew Marshall 2 Comments

Forgiveness is difficult – or it seems that way. Recent tragic events may even make it seems impossible. For the moment, though, let’s think about forgiveness in normal everyday life.

Forgiveness is about letting go. It may be excusing a wrong done to us or releasing a debt that someone has difficulty in paying. Both of these imply some sort of release. Of greatest significance in our quest for finding  happiness is the letting go of any anger or resentment we have. Anger, resentment and other powerful negative emotions are harmful to ourselves as well as creating unpleasantness for those around us.

When we think of forgiveness, we might think that we are doing someone else a big favour. After all, why should we?  Don’t they deserve a grudge, anger or irritation or even simply a sense of blame. But that’s just the ego making us feel a little bit grand. Let’s be perfectly clear about this: the person who is released most of all is the one who forgives.

Freedom
Forgiveness is freedom

Forgiveness gives you happiness and well-being

If the forgiver is the main beneficiary, then we can afford to be pretty generous with our forgiving! There are three main angles to think about:

  1. forgiveness towards ourselves,
  2. forgiving those who have harmed or offended us and
  3. cultivating a general attitude of forgiveness towards the world at large.

That sounds a fairly tall order but it is possible in time. The important thing is to work towards it because the more we are able to forgive, the happier we will be. In the main, happier human beings are better human beings.

More on this in Chapter 2 of The Great Little Book of Happiness

 

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Does how you think affect your health?

November 13, 2015 by Andrew Marshall Leave a Comment

When I was small, my parents used to have many ways of trying to coax us children to behave and tell the truth. Perhaps you, too, believed that telling fibs could give you a severe case of spots on the tongue. I also have a vivid recollection of being told that we all have a soul that is normally white if we are good but has shadows and black spots on it from when we misbehave. If that were true, goodness knows what mine would look like now but at the time I had an image in my mind of an amorphous white blob floating somewhere above my head, peppered with many dark bits and looking like a misshapen steamed suet pudding full of over-sized raisins.cake

What they were saying in an oblique sort of way, though, was that all our actions and words have consequences and that those consequences impinge on our future happiness or spiritual well-being. That isn’t a thought just for children – it applies, perhaps even more strongly, throughout our adult life.

Cause and effect

According to the law of cause and effect, every action, on every level, has consequences. That means that everything we do, say, and indeed think, is a seed that will have a future effect. Some of those seeds are weak and the consequences will be insignificant but others will obviously have more impact. Words said in anger, for instance, come out in an instant yet the effects can be dire and long-lasting. But what about thoughts? Do unexpressed thoughts sow seeds?

ThinkingThere is an extremely close connection between the mind – our mental energy – and our physical and emotional energy. Whatever we think has some impact somewhere. Our body is a complex energy field and through it runs a network of subtle energy channels, like a vast web. This energy is sometimes called “chi”. When our thinking is positive, the chi in our bodies tends to be more vibrant and flows well. Good and plentiful chi results in increased vitality, a greater sense of well-being and a stronger immune system. We often say that someone “radiates good health” and  most of us can sense the energy radiating from someone with a positive outlook.

Now what happens when we have a negative thought? We can feel on top of the world and someone will say something and we “sink to our boots”. The energy changes, doesn’t it? It withdraws.  It isn’t the direct effect of what the other person says that causes the energy change but how we perceive it. Our mind goes into a negative state and we don’t feel good anymore.

A black hole

That’s an example of a clear immediate reaction but the effects of long-term negative thinking can be disastrous. Our energy field takes on a semi-permanent state of withdrawal – like a “mini black hole”. Instead of flowing well, our chi begins to stagnate, causing congestion in our energy field and our body.

The trouble is that once we start thinking in a certain way, it is difficult to stop. One thought creates (or causes) another thought and negative thinking in particular can quickly become habitual. It follows the path of least resistance, like a body slumping from the pull of gravity rather than sitting or standing straight. There is a downward spiral and it becomes difficult to sustain a positive train of thought for long, or at all. Our energy, our chi, is poor and later, if not earlier, in life our mental and physical health will suffer.

Butterfly mind syndrome

Rather than being particularly positive or negative, our thinking may just be chaotic. We think of one thing, then another; then we hear a sound or something said and we’re off again. Or we pick up a magazine, our smartphone or tablet and our mind is distracted here, there and everywhere. Then our energy is scattered, loose, and untidy. Our chi is incoherent and out of balance; our energy field becomes weak and leaky – we are like a pot with cracks or holes. This is what happens when we are unfocused. Scattered thinking doesn’t necessarily make us feel bad in the short-term – it’s just tiring – but over time it depletes our energy reserves. The only way to overcome this is to draw our thinking and our energy in. We’ll look at this at a later date.

Good, positive, selfless thinking will sow seeds for a happier and more positive outlook on life; that in turn will lead to positive speech and positive actions all of which will produce good or positive effects on our health. But positive thinking by itself isn’t enough. It won’t work unless we unload some of our baggage and clutter. And that’s what we’ll start to do next.

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To be free, understand cause and effect

November 8, 2015 by Andrew Marshall Leave a Comment

How the law of cause and effect rules our lives

Links of cause and effectTied in with the quest for deeper understanding, fulfilment and happiness is the amazing law of cause and effect. Sometimes, particularly in a spiritual or quasi-spiritual context, the expression “law of karma” is used. “Karma” simply means action but is often used to imply the fruits or results of actions, whether one’s own or someone else’s. It’s an expression that unfortunately is often misused and misunderstood, often leading to “deep and meaningful” discussions when often a straightforward explanation is all that is needed.

Simply stated, the law of cause and effect means that every effect, every set of circumstances, has its cause or causes. If I burn my hand on the oven door, for example, there are a number of causes that lead up to it, the simplest of which are my movements, the heat of the door and, almost certainly and most importantly, my lack of attention or co-ordination. On a grander scale, an earthquake has certain geological causes and so on. For physical events, the law is very easy to understand. Where we can often lose vision is in the application of the law in our own lives.

Nothing, absolutely nothing, in our present circumstances is without preceding causes. Things don’t happen “just by chance” – there is always a reason. We might put certain events down to luck but luck or fortune, good, bad or indifferent, is simply the law of cause and effect taking its course. The word “simply” is perhaps an overstatement because cause and effect is incredibly complex and we’ll need to have a deeper look at some of its implications later on; but let’s just say for now that this law is inescapable. When we start to understand it better, we begin to realise that there is no use at all in blaming others (which is a favourite human pastime) for our predicaments or for our state of mind. We have to take responsibility and there’s no copping out.

To be continued.

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