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Archives for November 2016

Karma: why it’s all in the mind and how you can fix it

November 25, 2016 by Andrew Marshall 2 Comments

Karma means action. Commonly, it can mean the law of cause and effect. We’ve all heard of phrases such as good karma and bad karma. Sadly, there is a lot of tosh on this huge and very complex subject. But it all starts in the head.

Karma and the mind

Karma begins in the mind. We all think too much. If we try to stop the mind from having thoughts, we fail. Manykarma nonstop thinking people who begin to learn meditation give up because they erroneously believe that the mind should come to a complete stop. Those who carry on and find inner peace realise that the energy and activity of the mind have to be reined in gradually. There is no magic quick fix.

The mental smokescreen

Not only do we think too much, something in the modern psyche convinces us that unless we are thinking, we are being idle. Few people can sit and do nothing unless they are having a nap. To sit without doing anything and without having thoughts is an enormous skill. To do it properly, the mind must be absolutely clear. That requires extraordinary vitality in our mental faculty. But because we have not yet learnt how to do that and discover our inner potential, we generate a mental smokescreen of thoughts about – well, about anything really.

Multi-tasking – a skill or karma nightmare?

Some people are very proud of the fact that they can multi-task, which to them means that they have the wonderful ability to think about three or four things simultaneously. Perhaps they can. Or perhaps their thinking shifts from one thing to another in rapid succession without full awareness on any of them. Whether we claim to multi-task or not, what is certain is that our minds are in a state of almost perpetual motion. Even if we sit or lie down with the intention of doing nothing, the mind keeps working.

Energy – the brain drain starts in the head

This busy-ness of the mind is not something the world imposes on us. It is not some sort of virus or other affliction that we caught from someone else. Our incessant thinking patterns are self-generated. They are the result of mental karma – cause and effect.

The more we think, the greater the movement of energy in the body and in the mind, resulting in even more mental activity. Every thought follows a previous thought and is the cause of yet another. If we could harness all this movement and convert it into electricity, all the world’s energy problems would be solved in one fell swoop. But we can’t and so we waste most of our mental energy.

What we can do…

Our aim should not be to stop thinking altogether but to reduce our thinking so that the mind becomes clearer. When we achieve that, our mind becomes very strong as we conserve more of our mental energy. Just as importantly, as we begin to create less mental clutter, the body settles, too, and our sense of well-being improves.

karma sweet music of the mind… create sweet music!

Perhaps we could analogise the mind to a musical instrument. The more notes we play, the more we will want to continue playing; but the sounding of many notes doesn’t necessarily make for a good melody. The musician has to exercise sufficient self-discipline to ensure his playing is coherent and has the right degree of harmony. He also has to know when to stop, otherwise there is a song without end. Our thinking is the same – it should be creative and harmonious, providing the basis for a positive and more enlightened mind, and also be capable of pausing for silence.

From The Art of Not Doing: How to Achieve Inner Peace and a Clear Mind

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Rest: how to get what you really need

November 19, 2016 by Andrew Marshall Leave a Comment

Rest is not something we talk about very much, is it? We just keep on keeping on, like the rabbit in the Duracell advertisement. Rest, after all, is for wimps, the aged and the infirm. Real men and women keep going. The secret of success, whatever that is, is to push yourself and then push some more. Or at least, that’s the message that often comes across for aspiring high-achievers. So we become a little conditioned to the idea that rest is for the idle. Feeling guilty if we are doing nothing is the usual result.

Even nature has a rest

The trouble is, we lose touch with our own natural cycles. From where I’m writing this, I can see trees. Lots of rest treetrees. The funny thing about the majority of these trees is that at this time of year, they take some time off. And they don’t seem to have any emotional hang-ups about stopping and having a break. The leaves change colour and fall to the ground. There is much beauty in this and nobody has a go at the trees for being lazy.

Less than an hour’s walk from here are oak trees that are hundreds of years old. Centuries of growth and rest have ensured these mighty trees continue to flourish. There is enormous power in knowing how to be still, and nature knows this very well.

Cycles of activity and rest

Because our minds are so busy and our emotional side so complex, it is easy to lose touch with our natural stillness. Natural patterns of life fade and lose priority. But everything in nature has a cycle of activity and rest.

Our bodies require rest as well as exercise, and our minds do, too. For sure, we can keep going when we are tired. Most of us have to. But we also need to listen to what our body (including the brain) is telling us. If we ignore fatigue, nothing works as well as it should. A motor car might run without servicing and maintenance for a long time. For reasons of economy, many car owners run their vehicles in this way. It can be done. But eventually, things wear out. The car breaks down.

Isn’t sleep enough? Meditation can supercharge you

If we enjoy good quality sleep at night, we get several hours of rest. But sleep isn’t always enough in this noisy and hectic world of ours.

We can also experience a better quality of profound rest consciously from a short but regular meditation. It may be a simple one, such as sitting quietly observing the flow of the breath. Or we may use a mantra or visualisation. Whatever meditation we do, it will give our minds and bodies the nourishment of very deep rest. This is not instead of sleep but a natural adjunct to living a full life. Many people find that meditation improves sleep as well as our waking hours.

rest mindfulBut I don’t have the time to do that

Meditation changes the quality of life but for some people it seems too far a leap. The usual reason is being too busy. (Refer to the first paragraph!) For those who are too busy, there is an easy practice that anyone can do, whether they meditate or not. Stop. Stop what you are doing for a minute or less. Turn the computer screen off. Put your pen or book down. Whatever it is you are doing, take a break for a few conscious breaths. Notice the breath as you breathe in and as you breathe out. Do it once, then a second and third time. Maybe once more for luck. It’s important that you stop to do this and breathe. That’s all. And it works.

More like this in The Art of Not Doing – How to Achieve Inner Peace and a Clear Mind

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Business and spirituality: can they ever mix?

November 11, 2016 by Andrew Marshall Leave a Comment

Business is business, they say. It’s hard and not for the faint-hearted. The human world depends on it. But any business is an interaction between human business spiritualitybeings. In fact, we are all involved in it. So why can it not involve the heart as well as the head? For many, this may sound absurd. Those aspiring to win The Apprentice would shudder with horror. Or laugh their socks off. Can personal ambition and the desire for big profit mix with the heart? Ay, there’s the rub, as the bard said.

Business mustn’t forget the purpose of life

Life as we know it couldn’t exist without the commercial world. On the other hand, don’t we need to have regard to the purpose of life?

Whether a person is a magnate of a commercial empire, runs a corner shop or sells their own produce, that person is a spiritual being with a spiritual purpose. That purpose may be different for everyone because we are all at varying stages of evolution. But for no-one should love ever be excluded from the path.

Being ethical

How can love come into business, then? The first step has to be that whatever we do must be ethical. In other words, whatever we engage in must, at the very least, cause no harm to others. If profit causes suffering, it is wrong. More than that, a business should be conducted so that it enhances life for others and in some small way makes this a better world. If our work is ethically driven, that is what it will do and, if we are in business, that should be our intention.

Love, business and exploitation

Love will not countenance the exploitation of another human being. To become rich at another’s expense is to set up causes for future suffering. We cannot be happy if we exploit – but we can be enormously happy if we love.

Business and spiritual growth are not incompatible. Better still, love does have a place in business. It will show as fairness and kindness towards suppliers, customers and workforce. If we conduct our business with the desire for the highest good and with kindness, the world will be all the richer.

Head, heart or both?

It is not a question of letting the heart rule the head but rather of allowing the heart to guide the head. There is never a time when love is irrelevant. Kindness is always possible.

You don’t mean me, do you?

We may not be in business, but all of us engage with businesses in one way or another. The same principles business loving-kindnessapply. Be kind, honest and fair in your dealings with others, whether they be a vast energy supply company, the post office where you buy your stamps or the corner shop. In short, whenever we pay for goods or services we are at that moment in business. It is entirely up to us whether we act with goodwill and kindness towards others but if we listen to our heart, we will know which is the right way to act and to be.

More like this in Awakening Heart: The Blissful Path to Self Realisation

 

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Criticism: 3 reasons it’s bad for your wellbeing

November 5, 2016 by Andrew Marshall Leave a Comment

Criticism, as everyone knows, can hurt. No-one likes to be criticised. But even so, we tend to be experts at judgingCriticism judgment what is good or bad in someone else. Often, we will be too well-mannered to say anything and remain silent. Nevertheless, our minds form a judgment. It’s a habit that goes back to childhood. And, as energy follows thought, it’s bad for us and our sense of wellbeing.

Criticism – the antithesis of happiness

Being judgmental, even silently, is the antithesis of happiness. When we are on the receiving end of criticism, the ego is easily bruised. Perhaps we feel a little indignant or defensive. Probably, we have a sense of being deflated. The wind is taken out of our sails. Our self-esteem takes a knock. Most of us have experienced this many times in our lives.

But giving criticism can be just as damaging for ourselves, too. Here’s why.

1. It destroys our inner peace. A peaceful mind doesn’t judge. Those times we feel good occur because our innate wholeness is alive. When we are truly at peace, the mind is whole. There is no division. But when we judge that this is better than that, that this is good and that is bad, we have lost our equanimity.

2. This sets in motion a chain of events. Anyone or anything that supports what we judge to be right generates a positive response in us. Conversely, a negative reaction arises towards those who are against our belief of what is right and good.

3. When we see what we like, it makes us feel better. Our dislikes, on the other hand, make us feel worse. With the former, we are more relaxed and the latter generate tension. Moods and sense of wellness fluctuate. This is normal human behaviour, so we may think there is nothing we can do about it. But the cause isn’t “out there”, it is in the mind. That means we have choice.

Cultivate a mind that is at ease to enliven your wellbeing

A mind that is at ease naturally accepts others and circumstances as they are. That doesn’t mean we are free of responsibility to act, but we can do so without a sense of blame. The world is full of rhetoric about what is right and wrong. It comes from people who think their view is the only correct one. That means they haven’t been really listening to the other. It also means they have closed their minds. When our minds are closed, we are not free. We become our own prisoner. That is no way to be and is an unhappy state.
So relax and be aware. Let the mind be at ease. When criticism raises its head, chop it off. Gradually, life becomes more pleasant. We feel better. Our sense of wellbeing improves and we begin to restore wholeness. We don’t need to fight the world anymore. A measure of peace and joy can live in our hearts. And that’s just what the world needs.

More on easier living in Awakening Heart: The Blissful Path to Self Realisation

Good article by Oliver Burkeman “Is moaning good for you?” in today’s Guardian

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